- Bumble announced in May 2025 that it is dropping the swipe feature entirely and introducing an AI assistant called Bee for matchmaking.
- Hinge has added a new tool that suggests opening lines to users, enhancing their dating experience.
- Founder Whitney Wolfe Herd has proposed the idea of AI concierges that would date each other's concierges.
- A recent survey revealed that 26% of American singles are using AI in their dating lives, marking a 333% increase from the previous year.
- Experts have warned that the use of AI in dating is making users 'relationally stupid' and negatively impacting authentic connections.
- The decline in traditional dating methods is evident as Match Group, which owns Tinder and Hinge, has reported declining subscribers for over a year.
- Approximately 80% of Gen Z and millennial users report feeling burned out by dating apps.
- Experts argue that relying on AI for dating can hinder personal growth, as it prevents individuals from learning through real-life interactions.
- Experts emphasize the importance of face-to-face communication, stating that our social brains evolved in such environments.
As dating apps like Bumble and Tinder see declining user engagement, a significant shift towards AI chatbots is emerging. A survey revealed that 26% of American singles are now incorporating AI into their dating lives, a staggering 333% increase from the previous year. Bumble has announced the removal of its swipe feature, opting for an AI assistant named Bee to facilitate matchmaking.14
Experts express concern over this trend, suggesting it may lead to a generation that is becoming 'relationally stupid.' Jackie Dorman, founder of the "Last Year Single" program, stated, "They're outsourcing their breakups to AI... it makes them look really witty and really fun. And then you get in person, and it's like, 'Is this the same person that wrote the dating profile?'"
The reliance on AI for dating may hinder essential social skills. “Our social brain evolved in a face-to-face environment,” noted expert Roghanizad, emphasizing the importance of direct human interaction.

While some argue that AI can help organize thoughts and reduce anxiety in dating scenarios, others warn that over-reliance on technology could stifle personal growth and learning. “If we're always outsourcing it to a computer, to technology, then we are not going to learn,” Dorman cautioned.8
As the dating landscape evolves, the balance between technology and authentic human connection remains a critical concern.
“Bumble's annual revenue dropped to $966 million in 2025, and 80% of Gen Z and millennial users report dating app burnout. A survey found 26% of American singles now use AI in dating—a 333% jump—while experts like Jackie Dorman warn of outsourcing human connection.”
