New shocking claims from Princess Diana's brother
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Earl Spencer defends 'monstrous' call claims about King Charles in BBC interview; Buckingham Palace says grief can cloud memory

Earl Spencer defended his claim that King Charles said, "rest assured, we’ll forget her soon enough," shortly after Princess Diana's death. Buckingham Palace responded, suggesting grief can distort memory, while Spencer insisted he accurately recalled the conversation during a BBC interview with Laura Kuenssberg.

The Guardian The Guardian18 September 2026 · 18:09 UTC
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Earl Spencer has reiterated his claim that King Charles made a shocking remark about Princess Diana shortly after her death, stating, "rest assured, we’ll forget her soon enough." In a BBC interview with Laura Kuenssberg, Spencer maintained, "I can tell you here and now, those are exactly the words he said."26

The comments, which surfaced in Spencer's memoir, Swan Song: Diana, My Sister, prompted a response from Buckingham Palace. The Palace suggested that the pain of fraternal grief can distort memory, stating, "His Majesty is mindful that the pain of fraternal grief can cloud reason, affect judgment and colour memory in ways others do not recognise, even many years after such a loss."145

Spencer described the alleged call as one of only two he had with Charles, emphasizing that he shared the comments with friends and family at the time because they were so "monstrous." He recounted a heated argument over funeral arrangements, insisting that Diana would not have wanted her sons, Prince William and Prince Harry, to walk in her funeral procession. However, Charles later insisted they should.3

Spencer expressed his disbelief at the alleged remark, recalling, "I can’t believe you just said that," before hanging up. Swan Song is set for worldwide release next Tuesday, with the UK edition published by Penguin Michael Joseph.

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“Spencer says the call was one of two he had with Charles in his lifetime, and he told friends and family at the time 'because it was so monstrous'. The memoir, due out next Tuesday, alleges the argument was over whether Princes William and Harry should walk in Diana's funeral procession.”
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